In the United States, a tall woman can stand proud.
But here in Paris, things are different. Everything is smaller: the houses, the cars, the people. And to see anything beyond the “standardized portions” is OUTLANDISH.
It does not bother me when old ladies stare in terror because I could trample them with my boots. Or when the seamstress gawks at my feet when she realizes I’m not even wearing heels. No, what is irksome are the number of perfectly legitimate men I must dismiss due simply to height.
Don’t get me wrong, dating a gentleman of the same height or an inch or two shorter is perfectly fine. In fact, knowing that a man is comfortable standing with a partner of equal stature is in itself incredibly sexy. But deep down, a woman does crave to allow a man to feel as he genuinely wants to feel – like a man. There is just something so wonderfully classic about in this dynamic.
It becomes difficult to remain poised when one realizes that if she were to be more generic (that is to say be of average height, have paler skin, blue eyed) she would probably have a greater response from the men around her. (She also wouldn’t suffer from the dreaded Beyonce Curse in which a man is captivated by a beautiful ethnic woman because he finds her exotic for only a short while — a black woman’s jungle fever.)
To want to be more generic is one thing. To be just a few centimeters shorter is quite another. I guess it is no matter really. Yes, it would be wonderful to find nice shoes all the time, but there is also nothing like two tall, beautiful people who are deeply in love strolling arm and arm.
Sometimes, happiness can only found when it is shared.