Renoir au musée du Frick.

Renoir, Impressionism, and Full-Length Painting will be on display at The Frick from February 7, through May 13, 2012.

The exhibition is based on The Promenade and will include Dance in the City and Dance in the Country (1882–83) from the Musée d’Orsay, Paris, The Umbrellas (1881 and 1885) from The National Gallery, London, Dance at Bougival (1882–83) from the Museum of Fine Arts, Boston.

These are honestly not my favorite Renoirs, but certainly worth checking out.

Pierre-Auguste Renoir French, Paris, 1870 Oil on canvas 32 x 25 1/2 in. 89.PA.41

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11 Lessons. 12 months.

It’s kind of scary how quickly 2011 flew by….

I’m hardly prepared for 2012. Like every year, I have a couple lessons to share…

1. You know him at the beginning…

A man tells you who he is unwittingly. He says he’s cheated in the past. You see that he spends money beyond his means. Always take note of your initial impressions and don’t sugar coat the truth because you like him.

2. Demand what you want!

I learned this one from a French girl…and then from an Irishman.

4. Plan goals for yourself and stick with them.

If you outline your most sincere goals, and spend 30 minutes a day toward their fruition, you will be astounded by the progress after just a couple of months, and find sincere gratification.

4. Set standards for yourself.

Work where you feel respected. Date men who give you what you want. Live where you feel comfortable. You’re worth the very best.

5. Recognize the illusion of love.

Unable to move past a breakup, I read Dr. Helen Fisher’s studies on the way your brain functions in love. It’s an addiction, not unlike a dependance on cocaine.

6. Demand a relationship on your terms.

It’s not easy, but if you set your standards and put them into practice, it is possible to have a relationship that is 50-50.

7. Save money for a rainy day.

If you put away 10% of every check you receive, you’ll be surprised by how much you have at the end of the year.

8. It’s always fun to splurge, but it’s even more fun to save.

I spent $500 on those Tory Burch boots that I won’t shut up about, only to find out that they had been on sale three months early. So the next month I went to a vintage store and bought a whole bunch of “new used” designer shirts. I felt much better.

9. Find comfort in the small things.

Buy flowers every few weeks to give your apartment a fresh look and feel, try to make your bed in the morning, find a creamy body lotion that smells delicious through out the day. These things make life worth living.

10. Separate your values from society’s expectations.

Many of the things that you want, may only be because people expect it from you. Consider what activities in your life make you happy, no matter how trivial, and what makes you indifferent – or even miserable.

11. Hot > Everything else.

The good thing is “hot” is very manipulable and doesn’t have to be skanky. (we’ll discuss this in detail later.)

12. Baiser au début is officially okay.

It’s taken me three years to accept it. But I finally decree that it doesn’t matter as long as everyone is comfortable.

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Favorite things (L’hiver).

1. Pure & Good Hand Creme

$22.00

I set this deliciously light honey blossom lotion at my desk in order to keep my chapped hands and elbows moisturized in the winter weather.  The vintage bottle is so unique and calls attention, and now everyone asks if they can use it. Pair it with Pure & Good Hand Soup if you’re furnishing your bathroom.

2. 2012 Weekly/ Monthly planner by Pocket Squares

$20

I almost don’t want to share these, they are so adorable. Each journal is made to your order. The pages feature unique quotes from our favorite writers like Roald Dahl, Gertrude Stein,  and F. Scott Fitzgerald. I ordered mine with a brown paper cover and decorated it with Parisian vintage stamps (of course.)

 

3.  Cat Deer Holiday Cards by Noiseemade

$20 for ten

These illustrations win the “Most Adorable Holiday Card Contest.” My order featured a kitten dressed with a reindeer cap (adorable!!!) The customized package was promptly delivered, arrived wrapped in brown paper with string, and with a few extra few things generously included. 

4. Chrysanthemum

What a beautiful winter flower to brighten our somber winter days. In Victorian flower etiquette, white chrysanthemum symbolizes truth and loyal love. Give your lover a red chrysanthemum to convey true amour.

Bee and Chrysanthemum by Katsushika Hokusai

5. Manet

Dejeuner sur l’herbe Print

$50

I used to hate Manet. How dare he paint such crude figures that sit so disproportionally in their settings. How dare he play with context and meaning, and set nude figures in public places! Who does he think he is, tampering with Titian and Michelangelo. And then I feel in love with Mlle. Victorine’s gaze. I learned to stop searching for meaning and settling into the experience of art.

 

6. Fortstye Saga

By no means is this a new series, but who doesn’t love a BBC Victorian drama that is just as risque as a modern day soap opera. Perfect for lonely nights, enjoy with marshmallows and tea.

 

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Spotlight: Spa 88

For $35, you can take spa day at Spa 88

Enjoy unlimited use of the locker rooms, steam room, several saunas, ice bath, lounge, and restaurant. The upstairs facility included a huge pool and jacuzzi. There are also a number of moderately priced treatments for an additional cost.

To be honest, I was creeped out by this place. Too many hairy fat men in the jacuzzi and nearly nude Russian girls chatting in the steam rooms. Swimming suits are required — thank god — but buff men still bathed themselves with soap in the sauna…

I’m the spoiled spa type, but you may like it if you are a man unaccustomed to bathing facilities.

Currently, Bloomspot has a great $25 for two voucher. Go with a buddy if you’re not grossed out by hairy men. There are also a lot of fit Russian girls chatting about in their bikinis.

Wall Street Spa & Bath 88

88 Fulton St
New York, NY 10038
Between Gold St & William St
(212) 766-8600

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Spotlight: Reebok Sports Club

My New Year’s Resolution is to improve my self-esteem….

…and that begins with taking care of my body.

The abuse my liver has suffered these past few months is written all over my face … dehydration, fatigue, stress, and too many marshmallows…

So opened I a membership at Reebok Sports Club.

Sporting Clubs are not cheap expenses, but when joining a facility, look for December specials.

The club features TVs on the cardio equipment, a huge rock climbing wall, a full Pilates studio, two basketball courts, and a unisex jacuzzi, sauna, and steam room (my favorite).

It’s encouraging to work out in a beautiful facility amongst hardworking people.

We all can use a little work on our self-esteem, so throughout the year I will share the secrets I find throughout the City…

…and of course share the indecent anecdotes you all love so much

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Portrait d’une Negresse

There is a satisfaction to be gained from dating the black man or woman,

the negro you once heard your great aunt sneer about under her breath,

yet upon our introduction, you realize that there isn’t much difference between the two of us, except perhaps the amazingness of our lips, the pleasing complexion of our skin, which does not impair the eye with its pale vulnerability, and how love making comes more easy to us than music.

If one more Republican motherfucker chases after me, I’m going to scream.

I think they are the worst. I would say it’s the repressed guilt,

but then why would they want to cheat on their perfect girlfriends?

History  cannot help  but repeat itself.

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La Vrai New Yorkais.

New Yorkers don’t realize that there is a more reasonable way to live….

You don’t need to spend $2,500 on a tiny studio apartment. If you’re visiting friends outside of Manhattan, it’s not necessary to spend $200 on a private vehicle to pick you up.

 I see it all so clearly, and yet, I’m the worst kind of “new” New Yorker.

It’s been four months and I’m already equipped with my:

  1. A tiny apartment complete with malfunctioning cookware and Chinese roommates.
  2. An obligatory pair of Tory Burch shoes.
  3. Three x-boyfriends who live within a 5 mile radius (and yet I never see them!)
  4. $500 in season hair style (Black people multiply our hair care expenses by 98 % … )
  5. Regular mani-pedi found on Groupon.
  6. A newly discovered adoration for Proust.
  7. An escalated tolerance to whiskey and vodka (nowadays, I have to settle for tequila)
  8. A pretty damn good rotation.
  9. And two jobs to pay for it all.

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La mode.

I’m in love with a pair of Tory Burch boots.

Just look at them. Go ahead.

A pair of tall glistening leather equestrian boots with an elegant little golden logo that gleams glamor at the ankle. Classy. Sexy. Sophisticated.

$500.

Monday through Friday I’ve been getting up at 7:30 AM to do admin work at an office off Times Square. Then on the weekends I pass out menus at a restaurant. It’s not glamorous, but it’s the sort of thing a college student has to do if she wants to get established. These boots — these boots are what get me through the day. Whenever things start to get rough, I close my eyes and imagine myself strutting down Madison Ave with the wind blowing through my hair, Jimi Hendrix’s Foxy Lady playing in the background and men in suits straining their necks to say “Damn, look at that hot chick in those sexy ass Tory. Burch. Boots“.

The funny thing is, I’d never even heard of Tory Burch before I arrived to Manhattan.

You see, this is what New York does to you. Even in Paris, I was perfectly content with my kitten heal leather boots from Clarks. They were sharp. Sensible. They kept my feet in style in the fall, warm in the winters, and dry in the spring.

Now, screw Clarks. My grandpa wears Clarks, I want Tory Burch.

In the Wealth of Nations, Adam Smith wrote that social pressure delegates how much we decide to spend. We’ll purchase anything to avoid feeling embarrassed by our lack of it — even when it’s beyond our means.

So what do I want to purchase? A pair of beautiful boots? Or a stamp of approval that says I’m worth something? And if that’s the case, does that mean I don’t feel like I’m worth something?

I know, I know, the whole thing is so shallow. I’m a smart cookie, I know what’s going on here….

…But I also know that’s gonna feel damn good when those snotty little fashionistas’ heads snap into place to gaze at my shiny legs or when I hear gay men mutter to each other, “Damn, look at that girl’s boots.”Ahhh.

I promise, after this purchase I’ll focus on a savings plan or figure out what I’m going to do with my life or work on my film or something and not have anymore of these unreasonable splurges…

(I mean that is right after I get a Longchamp tote to carry my schoolbooks)

Just a couple more weeks of answering phones…

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Me prendre si je tombe.

I think this one is getting to me…

And it’s different from what I’d ever imagine for myself.

Since I moved to New York, I feel like I’ve been thrust into a real life that twists, turns, and suddenly those sorts of inordinate things that I normally count on for stability don’t matter so much.

“I fall sometimes,” was one of the first things that I told him about myself. “Not very often, but sometimes,” I twisted my face into a wince that only drunkeness can educe. He looked back at me with penetrating scrutiny, but his expression remained still. “That’s fine. I can catch you.”

And that’s how it started.

It’s funny, those other inordinate things that I used to talk about so much –education, height, family, bank account — none of those things replace presence. Those inordinate things are illusions for security; they mean very little if a man is not there in his head or in his heart.

 

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Mon mérite.

God Damn.

This week I worked like a dog.

Really, it’s been 56 hours of none stop work Sunday through Friday. Two jobs + school. I’m exhausted. I thought I was playing well ahead of the game.

Turns out I’m right on schedule.

There is one thing I won’t deal with — bullshit. Literally, I just don’t have time to concern myself with it. I don’t have time to be blown off, to feel hurt, or to be second in line to some other bitch. Wanting simple things – a spontaneous text message, a response to my e-mail, and a few hours together in central park on a Saturday afternoon – those things aren’t very much. So please, please don’t waste my time by denying those basic treasures.

I just work way too fucking hard to feel like crap at the end of the day.


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